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12-04-25 In 12 days from now is Asher's 5th birthday and for his 2d birthday in a row I am not allowed to be with him. How shameful of her! I am the head of the family (or am suppose to be) yet I have to ask her permission to be with my son. I was also deprived of being with him these last two Christmasses. Who the hell does she think she is? she is an evil and sadistic woman who enjoys watching me suffer by depriving me of my son, contrary to the CCC (Criminal Code of Canada) and she continues to use him as a weapon against me. By depriving me of my son, as she has done for the past 1.5 years she has committed a crime, and continues to so so even now.
According to the CCC: 283 (1) Everyone who, being the parent, guardian or person having the lawful care or charge of a child under the age of 14 years, takes, entices away, conceals, detains, receives or harbours that child, whether or not there is an order referred to in subsection 282(1) in respect of the child, with intent to deprive a parent, guardian or any other person who has the lawful care or charge of that child, of the possession of that child, is quilty of
(a) an indictable offence and is liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years; or
(b) an offence punishable on summary conviction.
My wife, chipo siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from Kafue, Zambia) has abducted my son Asher. chipo's nephew, martin siamafuwa, supports the abduction of my son Asher. martin is employed at Family Legacy in Lusaka. While martin is employed at an orphanage / school which is there to help vulnerable children, martin is himself supporting the abduction of my son! Please send a protest message to Family Legacy using this contact form
And my shameful mother-in-law jane siamafuwa, from Kafue supports the actions of her daughter. Follow the money. (not the Bible)
Please contact chipo's place of employment which is Bethel Happy Daycare and let them know that someone who has abducted a child shd not be working at a child care facility. Bethel's email address is info@bethelhappydaycare.com
I am also asking that people make a complaint about chipo to the Minister of Justice of Canada at this email address: mcu@justice.gc.ca
Please also contact The High Commission of Zambia in Ottawa by email: zhc.ottawa@bellnet.ca or by this contact form or by calling 613-232-4400 or fax 613-232-4410
You can scroll further down this webpage to read about some of the criminal activity (not necessarily all of it) involving martin and chipo siamafuwa.
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Altho she has apologized for making threats, she continued to make them, so it was a fake apology.
(This site is frequently updated thruout, and sometimes new information is added at the bottom of the website, so keep checking back for updates.)
I am asking anyone who has any communication with my son Asher, or knows of his where-abouts, to tell him about his website Asher.Africa
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On Dec 12th, a paralegal was hired and paid K12,000 for a permit which never was produced. Interestingly, he was hired on my behalf by a friend of my wife. Is this just a coincidence?
Dec 24th, 2024: (I am still in Zambia and my wife chipo is still in Canada) chipo has (further) declared today that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son. (This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with my son Asher). chipo is denying me access to my property in Canada which according to the CCC (Criminal Code of Canada) is theft. In Canada she has committed 3 violations of the CCC: 1) uttering threats, 2) theft, 3) abduction
322 (1) Every one commits theft who fraudulently and without colour of right takes, or fraudulently and without colour of right converts to his use or to the use of another person, anything, whether animate or inanimate, with intent (a) to deprive, temporarily or absolutely, the owner of it, or a person who has a special property or interest in it, of the thing or of his property or interest in it; (b) to pledge it or deposit it as security; (c) to part with it under a condition with respect to its return that the person who parts with it may be unable to perform; or (d) to deal with it in such a manner that it cannot be restored in the condition in which it was at the time it was taken or converted. Time when theft completed (2) A person commits theft when, with intent to steal anything, he moves it or causes it to move or to be moved, or begins to cause it to become movable. |
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I have created this website as a last resort, and decided to go public with this issue because private diplomacy has not worked. She arrived in Canada on Feb 15, 2018, and was last known to have resided in Fort McMurray. I had been supporting her financially for 3 to 3.5 years while she was still in Zambia awaiting to come to Canada, and after the expense of hiring an immigration agency and the cost of the trip and other expenses, and now that she has Canadian citizenship and a healthy son, then to hell with me. She has no further need for me so she dumps me but stays in Canada, after we agreed that we return to Zambia where I was making provisions for her here. I met with her mother jane siamafuwa in Kafue who automatically took the position against me. (So what was the point of paying the dowry?)
The following are chat messages from Jan 13, 2024:
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In this chat session she is clearly desiring to further use me to get sperm, but refuses to have me in her life any more, nor wants me as the father to my own children. Yet she denies that this is using me. She will "find another way" (find another man to use him also for his sperm, and commit adultery against me.) I wd only have consented to another child if it was produced out a loving and caring relationship in which we remain together as a loving and caring family, and I as the father I am raising my own children. This is the "bigger picture". Am I to be expected to give sperm artificially to create another baby whom I will be deprived of?
She has taken my son Asher away from me and uses him as a weapon against me. She uses the police as a threat because in Canada all a woman has to do is call the police with a false accusation and the police automatically arrest him and he automatically goes to jail. Altho she apologized for making threats, she continued to make them, so it was not a genuine apology. On this recording you can hear Asher saying " I don't want it .... mommy I'm crying..." Asher is affected by all the problems between me and Chipo. Even at that young age (3 years old) he is showing evidence that the turmoil between us is affecting him.
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On Jan 2d on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats and extortion). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me.
My position has been consistent right from the start in that it is wrong to break up a family, and that when a man and woman make a commitment, they need to keep it. I am not here referring to a "legal commitment" of "marriage", which in reality does not exist. I am referring to a moral commitment and obligation. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment. I have never once even suggested the possibility of leaving her. The issue here is that of maturity and responsibility. It is a serious thing to make a commitment to someone of the opposite sex. If we are not honest about it and have the right motives, and do not intend to keep it, then we shd not have made that commitment in the first place.
In the following example the circumstances are different, but the principle involved is the same. Try borrowing money from a bank then unillaterally deciding that you want to break the commitment to pay it back, and see what happens! Yet people do not take seriously the commitment that they make to the opposite sex, and they avoid their responsibility to follow thru with it. The fact is that they were not commited in the first place. They cannot blame anyone else for this, any more than someone can blame the bank for not paying back the loan. It's an issue of honesty, responsibility, maturity, integrity, and motives.
The common understanding of marriage is wrong. In reality marriage does not exist. Let me explain: Supposing that I get a loan from the bank, then later I go to a judge and ask him to cancel my commitment to pay back the money. Of course a judge will not do this, yet courts do this for marriage to allow people to avoid their commitments. A marriage cannot exist because if it can be voided, then there is nothing binding it together and therefore it cannot exist, any more than a loan agreement can exist if it is not binding and a judge can simply void it. Banks wd stop borrowing money. The legitimacy of the coming together of a man and woman is in reality based purely on the honesty, character, integrity, maturity, and responsibility of each.
In this case what chipo had done against me and Asher is wrong, but to appease her guilty conscience and attemp to quell the cognitive dissonance within her she seeks the approval of the court and her like-minded friends who share the same wrong mindset, and as a group they regurgitate the same fallacies to keep propogating the same mindset, and must avoid any outside influence that may "upset the apple cart" lest they be confronted with a reality check. A closed circuit mindset tends to grow worse due to feeding on itself until the methods used to protect it and propogate it within the group become more extreme. It is a downward spiral. Deep in her heart she knows that what she has done and is doing is wrong. She is fighting against herself. The wisest thing for her to do is to come clean and be honest with herself and others, find refuge in the truth. Only then will she have peace in her heart.
As my son had his 4th birthday on April 24, 2024, I have been denied the blessing of being with him for this, and I was not allowed to send him a birthday gift because I am not even told where he (they) are staying. It's the "golden rule": He who has the gold makes the rules.
To my surprise I was allowed to video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about him.
This website is about a father standing up for and defending his son. I will never cease to defend Asher, who is suffering the worst in all this.
Sept 8, 2024, she has declared that she has from now on stopped all communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every way. This is mental torture. In her mind she thinks that she owns my son like she can own a bicycle and she uses my son as a weapon against me. She may eventually seek a judge in a court "rubber stamp" her wrong actions.
***********************************************Nov 3, 2014, I am again accussed of "running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and a ticket to Canada. A little common sense wd tell anyone that a father who loves his son as much as I do wd never "run away" from him. I needn't argue this point because the level of stupidity in her statement speaks for itself.
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Nov 20, 2024 marks one year that my son and I have been separated, forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and no nothing about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with him. Does she own him as if he were a bicycle? I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being deprived of my son.
Christmas 2024 ... I am deprived of my son for the 2d Christmas in a row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him. Who the hell does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is her weapon that she is using against me and she gets sadistic pleasure from making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and domination? Aside from this she is committing theft of my property which she retains there and refuses me. Please contact Chipo and tell her that you do not agree with what she is doing. Her email address is csiamafuwa@yahoo.com and her phone number in Canada is (or was)
Their office number is 780 750 7700
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Last year I fired martin siamafuwa from managing my 10 Miles property and told him not to set foot on the property again or it wd be considered as trespassing. He trespassed twice to commit theft. Compare some of the goods listed on his "accounting" lists (there are discrepencies between the lists) and on accounting 3 notice item 9: tools, drums, wheelbarrow which can be seen in the photographs stolen1, stolen 2 and stolen 3. (These 3 fotos were taken by Henry) It was my money that was used to buy these items which was why he was accounting the expenditures to me. It was these same items (and more) that he stole from me. In this regard see the text messages from Henry, the tennant: Henry 1 and Henry 2 Compare the aforementioned accounting document with accounting 1 and accounting 2. In accounting 1 on line 4 he mentions transport for milling machine 5400. But there never was any milling machine. This was a fraud. Then go down to the 7th line from the bottom in bold type "Milling Machines" (we have jumped from singular to plural). He got money from me by lying saying that he will purchase 2 (functioning) milling machines which he never did purchase. Reconditioning 4 rollers? He later claims that a fellow deacon from his church stole the rollers. Why then did he not report this to the police? How can anyone who has a responsibility to account for how he us using someone else's money not produce even one reciept from anything? In accounting 4 he says he spent K6500 for assessing one of the (non-existant) milling machines. This he says was paid to a man from National Milling. How can anyone buy a machine that is not working, he (martin) does not even know how to put it together or get it working?and needs the rollers redone? Isn't it just common sense to ask the seller to demonstrate that the machine is working properly before paying for it? Hypothetically, if he did purchase 2 milling machines, what are the names of the individuals or companies that sold them to him; what is the address of the seller, and why were not reciepts obtained? In reality however he did not purchase any milling machines. In this letter of sale he says that he is selling the "mini milling" to me when no milling had been done there, nor had intended to be done. (Also, he was not selling it to me because I had already paid for it when I was in Canada.) In accounting 2 he states K2,000 for painting the roof which he did not do. Furthermore, in these 2 fotos of the roofing sheets it is plainly seen that they are rusty and full of holes. Will anyone in there right mind want to paint this? roof 1 and roof 2 It is interesting that the roof over the false "milling business" had rusty roofing sheets with holes but the roofing sheets over the rentable living quarters were new sheets.
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1-2-2025 I am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son totally our of my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way. She continues to use Asher as a weapon against me. It is evil what she is doing! ************************************************************
martin summoned me to the Boma Court in Lusaka accusing me of defamation of character. On Feb 7th I appeared in court yet martin did not present any case against me. Instead he just used this as a way to ask the judge for a court order against my website (which he was not successful at). The matter was adjourned to Feb 12th and again he did not present any case against me for defamation, but again used this as a way to request that the judge issue a court order against my website, which was again unsuccessful. The proper procedure is that the statement of claim is first read, then must be substantiated by evidence. But his claim was an empty statement that I had defamed him, which was not substantiated wuth any evidence, the court shd not have allowed the proceedings to continue. There is no grounds for such a request for a Court Order since such an Order wd have no legal basis.
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March, 2025 chipo has again committed theft of land, this time by declaring that she will not sign the documents allowing it to be sold, after she has assigned the rights to it and the ownership of it to me. Notice of Ownership
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Feb 2025. I have again challenged chipo to a public polygraph exam, but she still refuses. She says that my allegations against her and martin are false. If she really believes this, then why is she still refusing a public polygraph exam? We can both be tested publicly on the statements and accusations that I have made on this website, then if I am falsely accusing her I will be publicly exposed. But it is she who is afraid of the truth getting out.
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martin is a manipulator and con-man. His three-fold method is:
1) He does not give a straight forward answer to a straight forward question, but he will distort the issue or divert to another topic or side issue.
2) He will play the victim even when he is the purpetrator, so that people end up feeling feel sorry for him.
3) He avoids dealing with the evidence.
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on the Letter of Sale for the Kanakantapa farm (453) all writing was done with the same colour of ink, suggesting that the same pen was used. This is significant because chipo is in Canada and cd not have signed it. But her signature is not on this document, only per printed name, which was printed by martin. But martin cannot witness himself. Even tho he printed chipo's name, he is still claiming he was a witness. But a witness to what? Her SIGNING her name? No. Him PRINTING her last name and first initial. But it was still martin who printed it, and martin cannot witness himself. And isn't chipo's SIGNATURE suppose to be on it? Notice further that martin added "/for" (after her printed name) meaning what? That chipo is buying it for martin?
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This is April 8th and I have been refused "permission" to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need permission! Who the hell does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know nothing about him and am still cut off from him. Only a woman with sadistic and evil mind can act in this way! She loves to see me suffer in sorrow and using my son as a weapon against me.
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I am asking please if anyone skillful in charms, spellcasting, magic, rituals, enchantments, voodoo, or in any other aspect of the occult or esoteric arts and sciences can do whatever is necessary to bring justice to the issues that I have detailed on this website.
Please, if anyone can help in this matter it will be much appreciated! Thank you!
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Chipo has committed violations of the CCC in Canada, and is involved with Martin Siamafuwa in crimes cimmitted in Zambia. The justice If they cannot be brot to justice, then let justice be brot to them. Chipo has committed violations of the CCC in Canada, and is involved with Martin Siamafuwa in crimes comitted in Zambia. The justice systems on both countries are based on the Bristish system which is based on the Bible. (This is why traditionally a witness at a trial was asked to take the Bible in their right hand and swear to "tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, so help me God." The God here is the God of the Bible and Christianity. This being the case, some of the principles layed out in the Bible are:
Exodus 21:23-25 And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot. Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.
Revelation 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. . . .
If I am killed here in Zambia, I am asking that someone kill chipo in Canada, martin and jane in Zambua. But she and martin can also orchestrate my death in a way that is seemingly "natural" and not draw attention to them, and this is simply by neglecting me here knowing that I will die of malnutrition or hunger, or get sick and not be able to get help, or some calamity "accidentally" befalling me. Or if my freedom is affected by some "legitimate" charge or allegation against me, then take action against them. If ANYTHING bad happens to me here, the take action against them. They (chipo, martin, jane) are responsible for me here because they behind the fraudulent marriage and because the causation of all these events is chipo. The main cause is money and materialism.
1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
If anything bad happens to me, make something bad happen to chipo, martin, and jane siamafuwa. If they either kill me or I die for ANY reason whatsoever, then kill chipo siamafuwa in Canada, kill martin siamafuwa in Lusaka, and kill jane siamafuwa in kafue.
I worked for years on jobs I did not like and in invested much money here in Zambia based on chipo promise that we return here to live. Now I am struggling for survival here and living in bad conditions with no one to help me. I am all alone. Yet jane received dowry money from me, yet abandoned me.
Does anyone know that the siamafuwa family is musical? Oh yes! They love to sing together and one of their favourite songs is:
Thank you Money for saving my soul. Thank you Money for making me whole. Thank you Money for giving to me: Thy great salvation so rich and free.
I have asked help in the past in our family situation from the Mormon Church (near the East Park Mall) and met with a pastor or elder there, (Mormons in their adverts emphasise the importance of family) who assured me that they will contact chipo, but they did not. I went to the catholic church and met with a priest who again said that he will try to help and will contact my wife, but never did. I went to the Dutch Reformed Church and met with the pastor who likewise said that he will try to help but never did. Then I went to a local Adventist church and asked that someone contact my wife, but at best only a superficial attempt was made to contact her (so I was told) but nothing ever was done. I even contacted the headquarters of the SDA church in Zambia by email more than once but there was no response.
I have made these allegations of crimes and yet no one has put forth any evidence to contradict my claims, despite verbally denying them. I have already stated that I have challenged chipo to a public polygraph exam which she has refused. I likewise now challenge martin to a public polygraph exam on my allegations of his crimes. He denies having done anything wrong, so if so, let him accept my challenge, and lets call in the camera crews of ZNBC and Movi TV and the others to film it live.
Since she caused this situation, it is her responsibility to provide for me here and protect me here. Since she has been behind the thefts and frauds that have gotten much money from me, she has a moral obligation to pay for any and all if my expenses. For her to use me then just dump me like a piece of garbage is evil.
And she has taken my son away from me and deprived me of being his father and raising him, which is also evil. She tries to justify this by telling people that I was not prividing for him which is a lie and even if it was true, does not justify what she has done. On criminal trial for anduction in Canada, a judge will agree that even if I was not providing for Asher does not justify her committing a crime.
But she is lying my saying that I was not providing for him, and I have challenged to a polygraph exam on this point but ahe has refused. But this is a convenient excuse to use. You will also notice that early in this website ahe wanted to become pregnant again, but if there is insufficient money (from me) for one child, then there wd be twice a deficiency in money for a second child. She contradicts herself.
My personal belongings must also be protected here, and if anything happens to them, then in this case also take action against them.
Chipo has further committed theft (according to the laws if Zambia) by refusing to sign a Letter if Sale allowing me to sell my farm in Kanakantapa. This is if, what the Kanakantapa manager has said is true, that her signature is required. But the Notice of Ownership (find this elsewhere on this website) clearly states that she transferred the ownership to me, including all rights thereof (including the right for ME to sell it).
