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"You don't have
to travel there to experience
it."
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(at) hell (dot) Africa
My wife, Chipo Siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from Kafue, Zambia) has abducted my son Asher on Nov 20, 2024, which is the same day that she committed theft of my property.
Please contact Chipo's place of employment which is Bethel Happy
Daycare and let them know that someone who has abducted a child shd not
be working at a child care facility. Bethel's email address is
info@bethelhappydaycare.com
I have always held the
position that we are a family that
shd never be broken up. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment.
If you are not mature and responsible enuff to keep a commitment then
you shd not make it in the first place. She has no one to blame for
this but herself.
Dec 24th,
2024: (I am still in
Zambia and
my wife Chipo is still in Canada) Chipo has (further) declared today
that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son.
(This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with
my son Asher). Chipo is denying me access to my property in Canada
which is
theft.
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She has taken my son Asher away
from me
and uses him as a weapon against me. She uses the police as a threat
because in Canada all a woman has to do is call the police with a false
accusation and the police automatically arrest him.
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On Jan 2d on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me.
To appease
her conscience and
attemping to quell the cognitive dissonance within her she seeks the
approval of the her like-minded friends who share the same
wrong mindset, and as a group they regurgitate the same fallacies to
keep propogating the same mindset, and must avoid any outside influence
that may "upset the apple cart" lest they be confronted with a reality
check. A closed circuit mindset tends to grow worse due to feeding on
itself until the methods used to protect it and propogate it within the
group become more extreme. It is a downward spiral. Deep in her heart
she knows that what she has done and is doing is wrong. She is fighting
against herself. The wisest thing for her to do is to come clean and be
honest with herself and others, find refuge in the truth. Only then
will she have peace in her heart.
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As my son had his 4th birthday on April 24, 2024, I have been denied the blessing of being with him for this, and I was not allowed to send him a birthday gift because I am not even told where he (they) are staying. It's the "golden rule": He who has the gold makes the rules.
To my
surprise I was allowed to
video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which
was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of
what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still
otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about
him.
Sept 8, 2024, she has declared that she has from now on stopped all communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every way. This is mental torture.
***********************************************Nov 3, 2024, I am again accussed of "running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and a ticket to Canada. Am I afraid of him like meeting a hungry lion in the jungle that I will run away from him?! I needn't argue this point because the level of stupidity in her statement speaks for itself.
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Nov
20, 2024 marks one year that my son and I have been
separated,
forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and know nothing
about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with
him. I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being
deprived of my son.
Christmas 2024 ... I am deprived of my son for the 2d Christmas
in a
row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect
her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him.
Who does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is
her weapon that she is using against me and is
making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and domination?
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It
was Chipo who
engaged the
services of Martin (her nephew) so that Chipo is the Primary (or
Principle) and Martin is the secondary (or agent of). The
monies
sent to martin were sent thru Chipo.
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Now to the issue of marriage. In March 2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and civil marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring her to Canada). As far as the tribal marriage was concerned, I was instructed to pay the dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted that same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage. Chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material gain, a ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud, with Martin and Chipo's mother: Jane as the two other key players. As part of the payment of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the marriage to Chipo's mother Jane, yet when I followed thru with bringing my complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Follow the money. (and the sperm)
There were 2
duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This
was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Zero paperwork or
receipts have been produced. If they are honest, then why have they not
produced even one shred of paperwork for the sale of these peopertries,
if in fact they ever were sold, which has not even been ascertained.
Whichever is the case, there is no paperwork.
All
of this money was my hard-earned money that I earned since my
return to Canada in Sept, 2014, was spent in Zambia because of
Chipo's promise that after I adequately invest in Zambia to
support us here, she will return to Zambia with me to set up
our
home here. But her real intention from the start was to remain
in
Canada to benefit her and her family. To hell with me.
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1-2-2025 I
am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is
emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son
totally our of
my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he
loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way.
This is April 8th and I have been refused
permission
to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need
permission! Who does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be
told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know
nothing about him and am still cut off from him.
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she and her family in Zambia ("Bible believing" Adventists)
have used me for as much as they can get from me, and I have
remaining with me here what I have in my locker at the
homeless shelter. But
they are all "Christians" and attend church. What a wonderful religion
these people have! Dosn't it make you want to join their church?
Halleluiah! Praise the Lord! Go to hell! |