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This is the 3d year in a row that I have been deprived of my son on his birthday! And it is all illegal on her part, after she has abducted my son! I am not allowed to be with my son this April 24th. Even for his previous 2 birthdays while I was still in Zambia I was not told anything about his birthday nor sent even 1 foto, was not even allowed to voice conference with him, yet she accused me of not sending him a gift, when I did not even have his address. She continues to use my son as a weapon against me. She needs a wake-up call!

My wife, Chipo Siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from Kafue, Zambia) has abducted my son Asher on Nov 20, 2023, which is the same day that she committed theft of my property.

According to the CCC (Criminal Code of Canada): 283 (1) Everyone who, being the parent, guardian or person having the lawful care or charge of a child under the age of 14 years, takes, entices away, conceals, detains, receives or harbours that child, whether or not there is an order referred to in subsection 282(1) in respect of the child, with intent to deprive a parent, guardian or any other person who has the lawful care or charge of that child, of the possession of that child, is quilty of
(a) an indictable offence and is liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years; or
(b) an offence punishable on summary conviction.

If a man did this he wd be in prison, but a woman can do it with impunity. Here she agrees (Oct 1, 2024) that if she leaves me she that she cannot take Asher with her, then later she lies and denies having agree to this. She also twice states her intention to take Asher from me (her intention to commit a crime). Here she admits to making threats and to provoking me. Then after apologizing, she continues with her threats and provoking. Unfortunately my son Asher is being badly affected by all this, and he is heard to say "Mommy, I don't want it ... Mommy, I'm crying."

After she abandoned me on Nov 20, 2024, and since she deprived me of raising my son, I decided to go to Zambia to check up on the money that I had invested there, which I had postponed doing because I did not want to be away from my son. What I discovered was 
multiple thefts and frauds that had been committed involving Chipo and her nephew Martin Siamafuwa. There were four properties involved in total. There were 2 duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Zero paperwork or receipts have been produced. If they are honest, then why have they not produced even one shred of paperwork for the sale of these properties, if in fact they were sold in the first place, which has not even been ascertained. Whichever is the case, there is no paperwork.

This was money that I earned on low paying jobs that I earned since my return from Zambia to Canada on Sept, 2014, was spent in Zambia because of Chipo's promise that after I adequately invest in Zambia to support us here, she will return to Zambia with me to set up our home here. But her real intention from the start was to remain in Canada to benefit her and her family. And to hell with me.

She has committed theft of my property on Nov 20,2024 which is still ongoing to this day (if it is even all still there any more). My property is at her apartment which she refuses me access to, which according to the CCC is theft:

322 (1) Every one commits theft who fraudulently and without colour of right takes, or fraudulently and without colour of right converts to his use or to the use of another person, anything, whether animate or inanimate, with intent

(a) to deprive, temporarily or absolutely, the owner of it, or a person who has a special property or interest in it, of the thing or of his property or interest in it;

(b) to pledge it or deposit it as security;

(c) to part with it under a condition with respect to its return that the person who parts with it may be unable to perform; or

(d) to deal with it in such a manner that it cannot be restored in the condition in which it was at the time it was taken or converted. Time when theft completed

(2) A person commits theft when, with intent to steal anything, he moves it or causes it to move or to be moved, or begins to cause it to become movable.


This recording from Aug 27, 2024 while I was in Zambia

This recording was made Nov 2, 2024 while I was in Zambia



Using me for sex

She has used me, amongh other ways, for sex. Then after she has dumped me, she still wants another child but this time without sex. The following texts which were sent to me after I was in Zambia, and she was still in Canada. She dumps me, refuses to live with me, sleep with me, yet still wants to use me after all that. 
 


She will "find another way" (find another man to use him also for his sperm, and commit adultery against me.) I wd only have consented to another child if it was produced out a loving and caring relationship in which we remain together as a loving and caring family, and I as the father I am raising my own children. This is the "bigger picture". Am I to be expected to give sperm artificially to create another baby whom I will be deprived of?

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Dec 24th, 2024: (I am still in Zambia and my wife Chipo is still in Canada) Chipo has (further) declared today that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son. (This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with my son Asher).  


She arrived in Canada on Feb 15, 2018. I had been supporting her financially for more than 3 years while she was still in Zambia awaiting to come to Canada, and after the expense of hiring an immigration agency and the cost of the trip and other expenses, and now that she has Canadian citizenship and a healthy son, then to hell with me. She has no further need for me so she dumps me but stays in Canada, after we agreed that we return to Zambia where I was making provisions for her here in Zambia. I met with her mother Jane Siamafuwa in Kafue who automatically took the position against me. (So what was the point of paying the dowry?) Follow the money. (and the sperm) 

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She uses the police as a threat because in Canada all a woman has to do is call the police with a false accusation and the police automatically arrest him.

On Jan 2d, 2025 on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me. 


I have always held the position that we are a family that shd never be broken up. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment. If you are not mature and responsible enuff to keep a commitment then you shd not make it in the first place. There is never any justification or excuse for breaking a commitment. She alone is to blame for her breaking her commitment and breaking up the family. 


But she knew before she married me what she was after, and so it is not by chance that it happened in this way, but to cover herself she must find a way to transfer the guilt onto the me. She can say "It just isn't working out." This is not true: Rather, the fact is that she never loved me in the first place. Love is not here today and gone tomorow. This is not the nature of love. If "love" is not there any more then it never was there in the first place.


Men do not abandon their children, but are made to appear to have done so, and this is because the woman blocks him out, then orchestrates things to make it look like he abandoned her. Anything to take the focuss off of her. She CHOSE to commit to me. No one forced her at gunpoint to make a false commitment. Morally and ethically what she has done is wrong, and this morality and ethics has nothing to do with any court or legal system. Courts by their very nature are amoral (without morals). An attempt to  amoral behavior by getting a judge to rubber stamp it, does not make it right. Judhges and courts do not decide what is right. But even tho a judge sanctions it, this does not make it right, and in their hearts they know that what they have done is wrong.  

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Nov 20, 2024 marks one year that my son and I have been separated, forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and know nothing about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with him. I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being deprived of my son.

Christmas 2024 ... I am deprived of my son for the 2d Christmas in a row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him. Who does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is her weapon that she is using against me and is making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and domination? 


To my surprise I was allowed to video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about him. 


1-2-2025 I am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son totally our of my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way. 


April 8th. I have been refused permission to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need permission! Who does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know nothing about him and am still cut off from him.

 

On July 11th, 2025 I arrived back into Fort McMurray yet she continues to deprive me of raising my son and of having access to my property, thus continuing with the abduction and theft.


Sept 8, 2025, she has declared that she has from now on stopped all communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every way. This is mental torture.

Nov 3, 2025, I am again accussed of "running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and a ticket to Canada. Am I afraid of him like meeting a hungry lion in the jungle that I will run away from him?! I needn't argue this point because the level of the stupidity of her statement speaks for itself.

 




Now to the issue of marriage. In March 2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and civil marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring her to Canada). As far as the tribal marriage was concerned, I was instructed to pay the dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted that same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage. Chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material gain, a ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud, with Martin and Chipo's mother: Jane as the two other key players. As part of the payment of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the marriage to Chipo's mother Jane, yet when I followed thru with bringing my complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Follow the money. (and the sperm)


In the spring or summer of 2024, while in Zambia, I was falsely accussed of theft of chickens. Martin had brought in chickens without my knowledge and without my permission,as his own business, and intending to keep all of the money for himself. Yet he accussed me of stealing from him! If any one builds or places chatel on someone elses property without the owner's permission, it becomes the property of the property owner. I had "his" chickens removed by contacting the humane society and asking to donate them to a farmer who they knew wd care for them not mistreat them, as I am a vegetarian and against the killing or mistreatment of animals, and wd not have consented to such a business under any circumstances. Martin summoned me to the police station where I was accused of theft of his chickens, and I barely escaped prison because the farmer agreed to bring them back. This can be looked at as a veiled form of attempted murder because prisoners can be beaten up by other prisoners, and especially because of the skin colour I am perceived of having money, and I wd especially be a target. Having knowledge of the system there and what goes on in the prisons, and because I had no money to get out of prison, it is easy to see how I wd have remained there and likely died, either from being killed, or succumbing to some illness or just the bad conditions of prison there. My being killed or otherwise dying in prison wd have helped them immensely because they wd have gotten my two properties for themselves, and also been able to silence me because I held the evidence (as well as being the star witness) in any criminal proceedings that wd have occurred. Motive and opportunity.

I had sent Martin an email requesting a return of the money I sent to him for the two milling machines (which he did not purchase)
, and he agreed in his email reply that he will return the money to me
, but he did not. Unfortunately I do not have this email because I was juggling my email addresses at that time, yet under polygraph this fact will come out.


After she and her family in Zambia ("Bible believing" Adventists) have used me for what they want from me, and I have remaining with me here what I have in my locker at the homeless shelter. But they are all "Christians" and attend church. What a wonderful religion these people have! Dosn't it make you want to join their church? Halleluiah! Praise the Lord! Go to hell!


theft and fraud

Last year (2025) I fired martin from managing my 10 Miles property and told him not to set foot on the property again or it wd be considered as trespassing. After that he trespassed twice to commit theft. Compare some of the goods listed on his "accounting" lists (there are discrepencies between the lists) and on accounting 3 notice item 9: tools,  drums, wheelbarrow which can be seen in the photographs stolen1stolen 2 and stolen 3. (These 3 fotos were taken by Henry) It was my money that was used to buy these items which was why he was accounting the expenditures to me. It was these same items (and more) that he stole from me. In this regard see the text messages from Henry, the tennant: Henry 1 and Henry 2 

 

Compare the aforementioned accounting document with accounting 1 and accounting 2. In accounting 1 on line 4 he mentions transport for milling machine 5400. But there never was any milling machine. This was a fraud. Then go down to the 7th line from the bottom in bold type "Milling Machines" (we have jumped from singular to plural). He got money from me by lying saying that he will purchase 2 (functioning) milling machines which he never did purchase. Reconditioning 4 rollers? He later claims that a fellow deacon from his church stole the rollers. Why then did he not report this to the police?

 

How can anyone who has a responsibility to account for how he us using someone else's money not produce even one reciept from anything? In accounting 4 he says he spent K6500 for assessing one of the (non-existant) milling machines. This he says was paid to a man from National Milling. How can anyone buy a machine that is not working, he (martin) does not even know how to put it together or get it working? and needs the rollers redone? Isn't it just common sense to ask the seller to demonstrate that the machine is working properly before paying for it?  Hypothetically, if he did purchase 2 milling machines, what are the names of the individuals or companies that sold them to him; what is the address of the seller, and why were not reciepts obtained? In reality however he did not purchase any milling machines. In this letter of sale he says that he is selling the "mini milling" to me when no milling had been done there, nor had intended to be done. (Also, he was not selling it to me because I had already paid for it when I was in Canada.)

 

In accounting 2 he states K2,000 for painting the roof which he did not do. Furthermore, in these 2 fotos of the roofing sheets it is plainly seen that they are rusty and full of holes. Will anyone in there right mind want to paint this? roof 1 and roof 2  It is interesting that the roof over the false "milling business" had rusty roofing sheets with holes but the roofing sheets over the rentable living quarters were new sheets.

Martin committed theft by bringing in chickens (while I was in Canada) without my permission and was getting money from this. Later, after I was in Zambia, he grew maize on my property, again without my permission) to get money from it. This is further theft.

From a legal perspective it was chipo who engaged the services of martin so that chipo is the Primary (or Principle) and martin is the secondary (or agent of). The monies sent to martin were sent thru chipo (even tho I worked for this money myself) From a legal perspective both martin and chipo are involved in this activity.


Now to the issue of marriage. In March 2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and civil marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring chipo to Canada). The tribal marriage violated tribal tradition:  I was suppose to have a representative from my family present, but was not told this. I was instructed to pay the dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted within that same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage. chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material gain, a ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud. As part of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the marriage to chipo's mother jane. But when I followed thru with bringing my complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Then what did I pay the dowry for? I did not even get a real wife, only a woman who pretended to love me. Follow the money. (and the sperm)


Then there is the issue of the 2 duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Absolutely zero paperwork or reciepts have been produced. They are yet unaccounted for. These duplexes need to be investigated!

All of this money was my hard-earned money that I earned over a period of 9 years and was invested in Zambia because of chipo's promise that after I adequately invest in Zambia to support us here, she will return to Zambia with me to set up our home here. But her real intention from the start was to remain in Canada to benefit her and her family. To hell with me.

Chipo has committed theft of my property that was stored in Canada. 

Martin committed fraud by recieving money from me to hire a lawyer to purchase the Kanakantapa farm 453 but he did not hire a lawyer. There is a gap between the amount that was sent to martin to purchase 453 and the amount that he actually paid for it. This missing money has not been accounted for. I found out from the previous owner how much is was actiually sold to Martin for, and it was not the amount stated by Martin.

Martin has committed fraud by billing me for transport of a milling machine when no milling machine was purchased. 

Please protest against martin on his cell, if these numbers are still valid): country code 260) 767 924696 or 979580287 or (unless he has changed his numbers).
Martin's last know email address is martinsiamafuwa04@gmail.com Martin is a teacher at the Family Legacy school/orphanage located in Ibex Hill. Martin's actions are not condusive for example-setting for children, plus the fact that martin was in support of Asher's being taken away from me and me being forced out of my son's life. Is this behaviour and attitude condusive to a man who is employed to help children? Please contact Family Legacy and protest against martin siamafuwa. Family Legacy's Zambian number is 0965 845100, and their Dallas, USA (head office) number (land line) is 972-620-2020. A contact form can be found at
http://familylegacy.com/get-in-touch/  

Martin is the head deacon in his Adventist Church which is located beside the Adventist Eye Hospital in Lusaka.


Chipo and Martin had prevented me from selling two properties in Zambia
(at 10 Miles and Kanakantapa which were assigned over to me by them, which according to the laws of Zambia was theft. (Notwithstanding this, their apparent signing the properties over to me was done fraudulently because according to Zambian law, property cannot be sold or reassigned without proper documentation which they did not provide.) It only after I involved the Zambian Police and under the threat of prison that Martin finally gave me most (not all) of the required documents to sell one of the properties, then later Chipo again tried to prevent me from selling the Kanakantapa farm which she wanted for herself, (and which she had "signed over to me", but without the proper documents thus preventing its sale.) I had inquired with the previous owner of the Kanakantapa farm who had informed me of the selling price that Martin paid for it, which was less that what I paid him to buy the land, (fraud) then also, I paid him to hire a lawyer to handle the sale, but instead he pocketed the money and did not hire a lawyer. (fraud) And the book in which I wrote down how much I sent to Zambia and how much I paid for the two milling machines (which he did not buy), she "can't find" this book. How convenient.

Kanakantapa farm 452. (The number 453 on the legal documents was based on a clerical error at the Kanakantapa office, which was later cleared up). On the document Notice of Ownership. here is a foto of it. But in her later emails to me while I was in Zambia trying to sell it, she refused to sign the documents allowing me to sell. She said on exhibit 15: "that land is for Asher", but this was a lie, rather she wanted it for herself and her family. She avoided answering my question if she will sign it or not, but she refused while trying to divert to wanting to know how much it is being sold for, when it was not her business to know that, nor was price a condition of my selling it, because she assigned it over to me, so she has no say in it any more. Her tactic here is that she wd refuse to sign if the price was not high enuff, which is an excuse not to sign.

In exhibit 9, she says that she will only sign it after there is peace between us, which means she will never sign it because she does not want me any more at all, so there never will be peace. How convenient for her. But her assigning it over to me was unconditional.

Zambia's laws regarding theft are similarly worded to Canada's laws, so be refusing to sign and allow me to sell it she has committed theft of my land. This was done also by Martin with the 10 Miles property when he withheld documents and thereby preventing the sale.

I was finally able to sell the 10 Miles peoperty with help from the police, and the Kanakantapa farm with the help of some friends who advocated for me. With the money obtained (which was far less than the total that I invested in Zambia) I then purchased 10 hectares of raw land, but as I am legally unable to own land, I asked my wife to place it her name but in trust for Asher, (with me having full rights of it until Asher cd take control, including the right to build on it and develop it, and manage it) but she refused. So Asher has lost his inheritance due to his mother. Here is the site plan made out in my name. After this, and paying for my airfare back to Canada, there is nothing remaining of the money I had invested in Zambia.

Regarding the civil action that I filed against her for theft of my belongings in Canada.
I still do not know if all of my property is even still there any more. On exhibit 12 I think she meant to say can't and not can ("You can be selling everything") Really? I paid for everything with the money I worked hard for, and which is all clearly mine. And besides this, it was all signed over to me anyway. But she wants as much as she can get for herself, even after her and Martin have stolen and defruaded me of thousands of dollars. Her greed never rests, she still wants to take more from me.

And her stupid statement (exhibit 12) "You never provided for him." She has stolen from me and committed fraud, and I have lost thousands of dollars because of her and Martin, but I am falsely accused of not providing for my son. But even if it was true that I was not providing for him, it wd not justify her committing crimes. In fact, that money was sent to Zambia so that Asher wd have a home to live in and we wd have a business to sustain us as a family.  I have provided for him well, in Canada and in Zambia. She is a lair and will say anything to deflect the attention away from herself. The evidence speaks for itself.

The civil action that I filed against her
in Aug, 2025 for theft of my belongings  never got off the ground because of the female judge did not even follow proper legal procedure and deal with the statement of claim. She completely avoided looking at the claim of theft. You don't have to be an Albert EInstein to understand that the first step oin the process is to determine if theft had occurred in the first place, which is a prerequisite to being able to determine and collect damages. This female judge ignored the Statement of Claim but instead started in on our relationship and to my astonishment she councelled Chipo that she can get rid of my property! This judge committed an offense by advising her in this way. But as this preliminary hearing was over the fone with the judge, there is nothing in writing or recorded (as far as I know) as to exactly who said what, she can deny this. There are two rules in court:

Rule #1: The wife can do no wrong.

Rule #2: When the wife does do wrong, see rule number 1.
I have lost it all and have nothing left. She has left me destitute. My only belongings are what I have in my storage locker here at the Salvation Army Shelter where I have been since July 11, 2025.

Please protest against Chipo by contacting her personally: 780-531-7603 csiamafuwa@yahoo.com or her place of employment which is Bethel Happy Daycare that someone who has done what she has done is not setting a good example and shd not be working at a child care facility. Bethel's email address is info@bethelhappydaycare.com  
Their phone numbers are: landline 780-750-7700 and cellular 780-607-3244 and their online contact form for the head office 
 is https://bethelhappydaycare.com/contact-us/ 
Their office address as stated on their website as being on Franklin Avenue is the old address. The correct address (where they are now) is in Timberlea next to Premium Meats.

I am asking for magicians, sorcerers, and those proficient in the occult arts and sciences to please vollunteer your services and to bring justice to Chipo for all of the evil that she has done to me. Since she cannot be brot to justice, then let justice be brot to her! Make her to suffer in the same way that she has caused me to suffer!
Destroy her life in the same way that she has destroyed mine!

Even her religion teaches "an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth"

15 March 2026 She continues to refuse my challenge for a publicly attended polygraph exam. If, as she alleges, I am lying about what I have said on this website, then let her publicly expose me as a liar in front of the TV cameras and reporters. But she is afraid of the truth coming out, as is her partner in crime, Martin Siamafuwa.

Please keep checking back as this website is frequently updated.




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