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This
is the 3d year in a row that I have been deprived of my son on his
birthday! And it is all illegal on her part, after she has abducted my
son! I am not allowed to be with my son this April 24th. Even for his
previous 2 birthdays while I was still in Zambia I was not told
anything
about his birthday nor sent even 1 foto, was not even allowed to voice
conference with him, yet she accused me of not sending him a gift, when
I did not even have his address. She continues to use my son as a
weapon against me. She
needs a
wake-up call!
My
wife, Chipo Siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from
Kafue, Zambia) has abducted my son Asher on Nov 20, 2023,
which is the
same day that she committed theft of my property.
According to
the CCC (Criminal Code of
Canada): 283 (1) Everyone who, being the parent, guardian or person
having the lawful care or charge of a child under the age of 14 years,
takes, entices away, conceals, detains, receives or harbours that
child, whether or not there is an order referred to in subsection
282(1) in respect of the child, with intent to deprive a parent,
guardian or any other person who has the lawful care or charge of that
child, of the possession of that child, is quilty of
(a)
an
indictable offence and is liable to
imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years; or
(b)
an offence punishable on summary conviction.
If
a man did this he wd be in prison, but a woman can do it with
impunity.
Here she
agrees (Oct 1, 2024) that if she leaves me she that she cannot take Asher with
her, then later she
lies and denies
having agree to this. She also twice states her intention to take Asher
from me (her intention to commit a crime). Here she admits to making threats and
to provoking me. Then
after apologizing, she continues with her threats and provoking.
Unfortunately
my son Asher is being badly affected by all this, and he is heard to
say "Mommy, I don't want it ... Mommy, I'm crying."
After
she abandoned
me on Nov 20, 2024, and since she deprived me of raising my son,
I decided to go to Zambia to check up on the money that I had invested
there, which I had postponed doing because I did not want to be away
from my son. What I discovered was multiple
thefts and frauds that had been committed involving Chipo and her
nephew Martin
Siamafuwa. There were four properties involved in total. There were 2
duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This
was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Zero paperwork or
receipts have been produced. If they are honest, then why have they not
produced even one shred of paperwork for the sale of these properties,
if in fact they were sold in the first place, which has not even been
ascertained.
Whichever is the case, there is no paperwork.
| 322 (1)
Every one commits theft who
fraudulently and without colour of right takes, or fraudulently and
without colour of right converts to his use or to the use of another
person, anything, whether animate or inanimate, with intent (a) to deprive, temporarily or absolutely, the owner of it, or a person who has a special property or interest in it, of the thing or of his property or interest in it; (b) to pledge it or deposit it as security; (c) to part with it under a condition with respect to its return that the person who parts with it may be unable to perform; or (d) to deal with it in such a manner that it cannot be restored in the condition in which it was at the time it was taken or converted. Time when theft completed (2) A person commits theft when, with intent to steal anything, he moves it or causes it to move or to be moved, or begins to cause it to become movable. |
She
has used me, amongh other ways, for sex. Then after she
has dumped me, she still wants
another child but this time without sex. The following texts which were
sent to me after I was in Zambia, and she was still in Canada. She
dumps me, refuses to live with me, sleep with me, yet still wants to
use me after all that.
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She
will "find another way"
(find
another man to use him also for his sperm, and commit adultery against
me.) I
wd only have consented to another child if it was produced out a loving
and caring relationship in which we remain together as a loving and
caring family, and I as the father I am raising my own children. This
is the "bigger picture". Am I to be expected to give sperm artificially
to create another baby whom I will be deprived of?
Dec
24th,
2024: (I
am still in
Zambia and
my wife Chipo is still in Canada) Chipo has (further) declared today
that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son.
(This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with
my son Asher).
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She
arrived in Canada on Feb 15, 2018. I
had been supporting her
financially for
more than 3 years while she was still in Zambia awaiting to come to
Canada,
and after the expense of hiring an immigration agency and the cost of
the trip and other expenses, and now that she has Canadian citizenship
and a healthy son, then to hell with me. She has no further need for me
so she dumps me but stays in Canada, after we agreed that we return to
Zambia where I was making provisions for her here in Zambia. I
met with her mother Jane Siamafuwa in Kafue who automatically took the
position against me. (So
what was the point of
paying the
dowry?) Follow the money. (and the sperm)
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On Jan 2d, 2025 on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me.
I have always held the position that we are a family that shd never be broken up. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment. If you are not mature and responsible enuff to keep a commitment then you shd not make it in the first place. There is never any justification or excuse for breaking a commitment. She alone is to blame for her breaking her commitment and breaking up the family.
But she knew before she married me what she was after, and so it is not by chance that it happened in this way, but to cover herself she must find a way to transfer the guilt onto the me. She can say "It just isn't working out." This is not true: Rather, the fact is that she never loved me in the first place. Love is not here today and gone tomorow. This is not the nature of love. If "love" is not there any more then it never was there in the first place.
Men do not abandon their children, but are made to appear to have done so, and this is because the woman blocks him out, then orchestrates things to make it look like he abandoned her. Anything to take the focuss off of her. She CHOSE to commit to me. No one forced her at gunpoint to make a false commitment. Morally and ethically what she has done is wrong, and this morality and ethics has nothing to do with any court or legal system. Courts by their very nature are amoral (without morals). An attempt to amoral behavior by getting a judge to rubber stamp it, does not make it right. Judhges and courts do not decide what is right. But even tho a judge sanctions it, this does not make it right, and in their hearts they know that what they have done is wrong.
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Nov
20, 2024
marks one year that my son and I have
been
separated,
forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and know nothing
about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with
him. I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being
deprived of my son.
Christmas 2024
... I am deprived of my son for the 2d
Christmas
in a
row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect
her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him.
Who does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is
her weapon that she is using against me and is
making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and
domination?
To my
surprise I was allowed to
video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which
was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of
what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still
otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about
him.
1-2-2025 I
am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is
emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son
totally our of
my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he
loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way.
April 8th. I have been
refused
permission
to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need
permission! Who does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be
told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know
nothing about him and am still cut off from him.
Sept
8, 2025, she has declared that she has from now on stopped
all
communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every
way. This is mental torture.
Nov
3, 2025, I am
again accussed of
"running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to
accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact
that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and
a ticket to Canada. Am I
afraid of him like meeting a hungry lion in the jungle that I will run
away from him?! I
needn't argue this point because the level of the stupidity of her
statement speaks for itself.
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Now
to the issue of marriage. In March
2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and
civil
marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring
her to
Canada). As far as the tribal marriage was concerned, I was instructed
to pay the
dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted
that
same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage.
Chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material
gain, a
ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud, with
Martin and Chipo's mother: Jane as the two other key players. As part
of the payment of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the
marriage to
Chipo's mother Jane, yet when I followed thru with bringing my
complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Follow the money. (and
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Last year (2025) I fired martin from managing my 10 Miles property and told him not to set foot on the property again or it wd be considered as trespassing. After that he trespassed twice to commit theft. Compare some of the goods listed on his "accounting" lists (there are discrepencies between the lists) and on accounting 3 notice item 9: tools, drums, wheelbarrow which can be seen in the photographs stolen1, stolen 2 and stolen 3. (These 3 fotos were taken by Henry) It was my money that was used to buy these items which was why he was accounting the expenditures to me. It was these same items (and more) that he stole from me. In this regard see the text messages from Henry, the tennant: Henry 1 and Henry 2 Compare the aforementioned accounting document with accounting 1 and accounting 2. In accounting 1 on line 4 he mentions transport for milling machine 5400. But there never was any milling machine. This was a fraud. Then go down to the 7th line from the bottom in bold type "Milling Machines" (we have jumped from singular to plural). He got money from me by lying saying that he will purchase 2 (functioning) milling machines which he never did purchase. Reconditioning 4 rollers? He later claims that a fellow deacon from his church stole the rollers. Why then did he not report this to the police? How can anyone who has a responsibility to account for how he us using someone else's money not produce even one reciept from anything? In accounting 4 he says he spent K6500 for assessing one of the (non-existant) milling machines. This he says was paid to a man from National Milling. How can anyone buy a machine that is not working, he (martin) does not even know how to put it together or get it working? and needs the rollers redone? Isn't it just common sense to ask the seller to demonstrate that the machine is working properly before paying for it? Hypothetically, if he did purchase 2 milling machines, what are the names of the individuals or companies that sold them to him; what is the address of the seller, and why were not reciepts obtained? In reality however he did not purchase any milling machines. In this letter of sale he says that he is selling the "mini milling" to me when no milling had been done there, nor had intended to be done. (Also, he was not selling it to me because I had already paid for it when I was in Canada.) In
accounting 2 he states K2,000 for painting the roof which he did not
do. Furthermore, in these 2 fotos of the roofing sheets it is
plainly seen that they are rusty and full of holes. Will anyone in
there right mind want to paint this? roof 1 and roof
2
It is interesting that the roof over the false "milling business" had
rusty roofing sheets with holes but the roofing
sheets over the rentable living quarters
were new sheets.
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| Kanakantapa
farm 452. (The number 453 on the legal
documents was based on a clerical error at the Kanakantapa office,
which was later cleared up). On the document Notice of Ownership. here
is a foto
of it. But in her later emails to me while I was in Zambia trying to
sell it, she refused to sign the documents allowing me to sell. She
said on exhibit
15:
"that land is for Asher", but this was a lie, rather she wanted
it for herself and her family. She
avoided answering my question if she will sign it or not, but
she
refused while trying to divert to wanting to know how much it is being
sold for, when it was not her business to know that, nor was price a
condition of my selling it, because she assigned it over to me, so she
has no say in it any more. Her tactic here is
that she wd refuse to sign if the price was not high enuff, which is an
excuse not to sign. In exhibit 9, she says that she will only sign it after there is peace between us, which means she will never sign it because she does not want me any more at all, so there never will be peace. How convenient for her. But her assigning it over to me was unconditional. Zambia's laws regarding theft are similarly worded to Canada's laws, so be refusing to sign and allow me to sell it she has committed theft of my land. This was done also by Martin with the 10 Miles property when he withheld documents and thereby preventing the sale. I was finally able to sell the 10 Miles peoperty with help from the police, and the Kanakantapa farm with the help of some friends who advocated for me. With the money obtained (which was far less than the total that I invested in Zambia) I then purchased 10 hectares of raw land, but as I am legally unable to own land, I asked my wife to place it her name but in trust for Asher, (with me having full rights of it until Asher cd take control, including the right to build on it and develop it, and manage it) but she refused. So Asher has lost his inheritance due to his mother. Here is the site plan made out in my name. After this, and paying for my airfare back to Canada, there is nothing remaining of the money I had invested in Zambia. Regarding the civil action that I filed against her for theft of my belongings in Canada. I still do not know if all of my property is even still there any more. On exhibit 12 I think she meant to say can't and not can ("You can be selling everything") Really? I paid for everything with the money I worked hard for, and which is all clearly mine. And besides this, it was all signed over to me anyway. But she wants as much as she can get for herself, even after her and Martin have stolen and defruaded me of thousands of dollars. Her greed never rests, she still wants to take more from me. And her stupid statement (exhibit 12) "You never provided for him." She has stolen from me and committed fraud, and I have lost thousands of dollars because of her and Martin, but I am falsely accused of not providing for my son. But even if it was true that I was not providing for him, it wd not justify her committing crimes. In fact, that money was sent to Zambia so that Asher wd have a home to live in and we wd have a business to sustain us as a family. I have provided for him well, in Canada and in Zambia. She is a lair and will say anything to deflect the attention away from herself. The evidence speaks for itself. The civil action that I filed against her in Aug, 2025 for theft of my belongings never got off the ground because of the female judge did not even follow proper legal procedure and deal with the statement of claim. She completely avoided looking at the claim of theft. You don't have to be an Albert EInstein to understand that the first step oin the process is to determine if theft had occurred in the first place, which is a prerequisite to being able to determine and collect damages. This female judge ignored the Statement of Claim but instead started in on our relationship and to my astonishment she councelled Chipo that she can get rid of my property! This judge committed an offense by advising her in this way. But as this preliminary hearing was over the fone with the judge, there is nothing in writing or recorded (as far as I know) as to exactly who said what, she can deny this. There are two rules in court: Rule #1: The wife can do no wrong. Rule #2: When the wife does do wrong, see rule number 1. |